Holy matrimony.

It wasn’t until leaving the churches of christ and joining a presbyterian church that I heard my marriage referred to as holy.  It’s not that holiness hadn’t been attributed to me previously, but not in this new, more loving and dignifying manner.  Prior, it was my state of virginity specifically that I remember being identified … Continue reading Holy matrimony.


Scarred Vows

There are many unfortunate consequences of complementarian theology.  One of these consequences is disparity within a marriage.  I’ve shared before about instances where the indoctrination of this way of thinking impacts even minor things, but my husband is only recently beginning to understand that this inequality existed between us.  Previously, he saw the issues of … Continue reading Scarred Vows