It’s not really ok for you to expect people to spread Christmas cheer just because you don’t want to be uncomfortable.

Thanksgiving is next week.  As I’ve shared before, the holidays are hard for me.  For all kinds of reasons, November and December are difficult months for some.  We’ve had some unexpected expenses recently and they’ve reminded me again of what needs to be heard and better understood: access to money and resources is often what … Continue reading It’s not really ok for you to expect people to spread Christmas cheer just because you don’t want to be uncomfortable.

Christmas is coming, but I’m not happy.

I think there must be something wrong with me, Linus.  Christmas is coming, but I’m not happy.  I don’t feel the way I’m supposed to feel. - Charlie Brown Charlie Brown helped me understand that I love jazz before I knew what jazz was.  Vince Guaraldi is what I associate with Christmas music.  When other … Continue reading Christmas is coming, but I’m not happy.